Hailees every day adventures

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Saturday, March 20, 2010 at 6:16 PM filed under General postings
Im so bugged right now. My husband is so confusing I just don't understand him!!!! He stresses me out so bad. Here is why: We have been living at my parents house for a year now, we moved here so we could save money for a house. We found some in a different town but if we move out of where my parents live its called the valley. (oh im a SUB school bus driver and if we live in the valley i will be getting my own run next year but if we move out of the valley i will have to sub for 3 to 5 more years before i get my own run) So we have been looking at houses up here in the valley but they ALL so expensive like 300,000 and up its hard to find anything in our price range right now. So thats why we are still here, my husband wont move to a apt. or a house that you have to rent because he doesnt want to throw his money away!!! but he complains that we are living at my parents house... ? UGH!!!! ok so i found a house we can afford its 150,000 in the valley! woohooo and i found land for 50,000.....great price! i showed him what i found and he didnt seem that excited so just now i was like we need to buy the land and build or get the house and he was like well you need to set up a appointment and i dont really want to get land because we wouldnt be able to build a good size home (i said so what build small and in a few years add on) he still doesnt like that idea so he wants to buy but he doesnt take any action he doesnt do anything hes just ALL TALK!! he expects me to do it.... since he is going to school and work full time so he has no time... OH AND I DO i have a baby to take care of i have work around my moms house to do and i work ... sometimes i work 2 jobs!! so i have it easy you see so im the one to do everything... im stressed.... so anyways i just need some help, i dont understand him.... OH there is so much more, he also goes to the gym after work....and sometimes afterwork then the gym then school, so i see him ..... maybe for 10 min at night. Or he has his friends up and they play games when he doesnt have homework, and so i still get to see him 10 min because he is in the theater room playing games. AND another thing is he doesnt sleep in bed with me, he sleeps in the theater room because he doesnt like the noise from our baby, and now he is saying he doesnt sleep in our room because he doesnt want to bug me and the baby....what crap! im so bugged its just so stressful what should i do!? should i just step up and be the MAN and the woman? be the husband and the wife, the dad and the mom.....ok here i go! ps when i try talking to hiim he tries to compare things .... its like me VS him.... not right...not right at all pss this kind of stress makes me want to eat...and eat... and cry and eat... AND it makes me want to work out to get all my frustrations out... also makes me tired, and i usually never ever have zits but lately i have had 3!

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